It might seem difficult to start again when your life has shattered, but it can be done. Find out how to take advantage of new beginnings, building your life stronger than ever before no matter what.
After many years, a marriage can end. Your job can disappear. A hobby can stop being meaningful. Your best friend can break things off with you. You may have to move out of town, out of state, or out of the country. Times like this call for a new beginning and that can be difficult and painful. How can you move forward and begin again, leaving behind everything you know? How can you succeed in doing things you’ve never done before? Join Mysticsense to learn the way to succeed at new beginnings. Find out what new beginnings mean, why starting all over again can be difficult, and exactly what to do to start again. The only way to move in life is forward, and we’re here to guide you, so read on!
What Are New Beginnings?
“Every moment is a new beginning.”- Elie Wiesel
New beginnings happen every day. Each day when you awaken is a new day. There are new experiences, new opportunities, and new things to enjoy. Even when you go about doing the same things you always do, each day when you start doing them again, there are new chances. There are new opportunities to excel, learn, and meet new people. Each day, there are countless opportunities to strengthen your relationships, growing closer to the people you love. Every day, there are countless chances to become a better version of yourself, unlearning bad habits and relearning new ones. Your shadow side should be embraced while you learn new habits. Learn how here: The Unconscious Self: Embracing the Dark Side
Psychologically speaking, new beginnings help us. How? It creates something called a “fresh start effect.” Thebehavioralscientist.com says that “ The fresh start effect is a behavioral science finding that suggests individuals are more likely to engage in goal-directed behaviors and exhibit increased motivation towards achieving personal objectives when they perceive the beginning of a new time period.” A specific date or time we see as a beginning point is called a “temporal landmark” and this is something like a New Year, a move to a new city, or a new job. This motivates us to set goals and strive for them, because we feel we have a new chance, a clean slate, and it helps us to set new behaviors. Read more about this concept here: Fresh Start Effect - The Behavioral Scientist
Why Begin Again?
“Nothing in the universe can stop you from letting go and starting over.”- Guy Finley
If all that doesn’t convince you that new beginnings are good, there are a few things to consider- and you may be convinced after all! New beginnings allow growth that doing the same things don’t. New beginnings will allow new, enriching, and fun experiences you cannot have if you don’t start again. Your life will be greatly improved by new things. Still not convinced? Keep reading.
To Grow
Growth happens when we move forward and start something new. When you start new classes you learn and your mind expands. When you go somewhere new the experience changes you. Even when you eat a new food or buy a new outfit, the newness creates a new experience that helps you grow as a person. Of course, routines help make lives easier, but sometimes our routines and our ways of being become obsolete. They keep us stagnant by doing, thinking, and living the same things for long periods of time. Beginning again changes us and makes us grow. One thing that will help you to grow is learning about your psychic abilities and you can find out how to do that here: How to Develop Your Psychic Abilities
To Experience New Things
Some people say that variety is the spice of life and new beginnings allow that variety by providing new experiences. We all have our favorite things that we've learned to enjoy for periods of time, but what if other things are out there waiting that you would love just as much if not more? Learning to speak a new language, participating in a new hobby, or traveling to a new place will help you to experience new things that you never dreamed possible. On the other side of our routines, exciting new experiences await, so begin again and allow those things to happen. The New Moon is a powerful time to do magic to help you manifest changes. Read all about that here: New Moon Spells and Rituals
To Have a Better Life
If you're happy with your life, it might be difficult to imagine that your life could possibly get any better. Things could always get better. Discarding the old opportunities that you have grown beyond and moving forward into something else can only make your life better. Discarding toxic relationships and being alone while you heal and find new love can only make your life better. Taking a job at a new company when you've been in a toxic work environment where you were underpaid and unappreciated can only be a step in the right direction. Give yourself a chance at a better life. Start again. You can even learn to trust after bad relationships. Find out how here: Learn to Trust Again After Relationships
Why is Starting Again Hard?
“When one door closes another opens; but we often look so long and regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.”- Alexander Graham Bell
Starting again can seem difficult, if not impossible. We get so used to doing things one way that the thought of starting again can seem like too much trouble. There are a few different reasons for that. We might not know how to start again, especially if we haven't done it before. We might still be hurting because we had to let go of something we were not ready to let go of, and we just might not feel ready to start again. All of this can be overwhelming and make it feel very difficult.
We Don’t Know How
If you have never started again before, there is no better time to try than now. If you've never started again before, the thought of doing so can be terrifying. What if you make a mistake? What if you're so confused you don't make just one mistake, but nothing but mistakes? That's all possible, but you won't know until you try. Even if you make mistakes when you start again, each mistake you make will show you the right thing to do. Mistakes are sometimes the best teachers, so don't worry. Not knowing how to start again is understandable, just don't let it stop you from trying. You might even find your higher self when you start again and you can find out how here: Your Holy Guardian Angel: The Higher Self
We Grieve the Past
Even if things came to an end, and things weren't great when things were finished, things weren't always all bad were they? Letting go of your past and stepping forward into something new can really hurt. Breakups and divorce, having to leave a special place where you lived, being let go from a job where you didn't want to leave, or even moving forward into something you're looking forward to can hurt. You might crave routine, things that you were used to. There may be people who you will never see again who you will miss. Your favorite things and places may be gone from your life for good. That hurts. Allow yourself the time to grieve, but start again anyways. Soon you will love the new things in your life as much as you loved the things that are gone from your life. There can be grief that comes from any loss, but you can learn to deal with it. Find out how here: How Can We Deal with Loss and Communicate with the Dead?
We Did Not Feel Ready
Sometimes change sneaks up on you. You can be perfectly content with what's going on in your life and change comes out of nowhere and takes everything away from you. You will be called to be strong, to adapt, and to grow. Even though you might not feel ready, you are more capable than you realize. You might not know what to do, you might not know who to ask for help, and you might wonder if you can handle all these changes that come with moving forward. I promise you can do this. Everybody who had a surprise change had at least a moment of self-doubt. Don't let that hold you back. Start again, and allow yourself to thrive even if things are scary. Make sure to focus on spiritual self-care during these times, and you can find out how here: Follow Our 10 Steps For Spiritual Self-Care
How to Start Again
“ Time to tidy up your life. Time to start again.” – David Nicholls
Maybe by now you can see why starting again is a good thing, but you're still not sure how to do it. Some people say starting anything new is just one step at a time, but there's more to it than that. First, you must stop and breathe. Think about what you're doing, emotionally prepare yourself, and remind yourself that you can do this no matter how difficult it feels before you begin. Next you have to be brave because things can be scary. Moving forward is the only way to go, and you have to leave your past behind you. If you feel too lost you can ask for guidance. A lot of people have had to start again and a lot of them will be happy to help you!
Stop to Breathe
Before you begin, take some time to gather your thoughts, raise your strength, and remind yourself that you can do this. Starting again can change your whole life. You may lose things or people that have always been important to you, but you will experience new things and more new people will be brought into your life. Growth might hurt when you're starting again. You might discover that parts of yourself are holding you back from the kind of life that you want to live. You might realize that you're in some toxic relationships that you have to let go of. You might also find out that what you're moving forward into is better than you ever dreamed that it could be and you might regret not starting sooner. Take a deep breath, pause, and gather yourself. Take all the time you need and then, simply begin. If relationships start to fail when you start moving forward you can do something about it. Find out how here: Why Do Relationships Fail? How Can You Prevent It?
Be Brave
Starting again can be the most terrifying thing that you ever do. Do it anyway. When self-doubt sneaks in, have the courage to do your best anyhow. When you're unsure of what lies ahead of you, move forward anyway, confident in your ability to handle whatever challenges come your way. Bravery doesn't mean you're not afraid. It just means that you do the right thing and you do not let fear stop you. Everybody goes through fear especially when they start again. If you have to discard everything you've known before, let go of people or places who you love, or start a whole new experience of something you've never done before, that's scary. Be bigger than what frightens you. Be brave and start again. Learn how to be brave and unleash your inner power here: Find Your Inner Courage and Embrace Your Power
Leave the Past Behind
One of the most difficult things to do is walking away from your past. Think about this for a minute though- you have already experienced everything that's in your past. It's time to live in the world of today by moving forward into your future. So many wonderful things await you. New loves, new experiences, and new opportunities to grow. All of these wonderful things will give you a chance to discover parts of yourself you didn't know were within you. All of these things will also give you a chance to experience wonderful things you never even dreamed of. Our past shapes who we have become today, and the things that we do today will shape who we will become tomorrow. Leave the past behind and move forward into your future. Your life is waiting for you. You can move forward and make positive changes and you can find out how to do that here: How to Make Positive Changes
Ask for Guidance
When you're starting something new you might feel like you have absolutely no idea what you're doing. Have the courage to reach out to someone who you respect and ask them for guidance. Chances are, the changes that you're going through right now are the exact same changes that someone who you love has already gone through. They will have plenty of wisdom to share and the people who love you will do anything that they can to help you. It is hard to admit when we need help sometimes, or when we don't know how to ask. Reach out for help anyways. After you master the fine art of starting again, you will be able to help someone else who needs you. People who love you unconditionally will help, learn about unconditional love here: Unconditional Love Meaning
Keep moving forward, even if it feels impossible. Don’t look behind you. Start again when life calls for it, and move into your bright future. New love, new experiences, and a new you await!
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